This passage comes from bisexual playground.
Q:
Hello, my question is a bit difficult, I’m a girl, after the last time because of being cheated, I broke up with her boyfriend, after that I am a little once bitten by snakes, once bitten, twice shy, I dare not to love again can’t contact with men. Later, on a reading activity I met an older sister, she told me meticulous care, her gentle tone, and even the smell of her, I possessed generally want to close to, recent sexual dreams are associated with her to wake up his startled! However, I still have feelings for the man, there is a boy to approach me actively, I still will blush the heartbeat, I am the legend of bisexual? Am I not normal?
A:
Hello.
In fact, bisexuality is not a myth.
The psychological interpretation is that virtually everyone’s subconscious has a tendency to be bisexual.
Americans Alfred Kinsey of two large-scale survey on sex issues, said he asserts: all of the practices and arrangement are continuity, from heterosexuality to homosexuality, there will be a transition phase, called “bi”.
“Bisexuality comes from a two-way imitation of our parents when we were young,” says Claude estudge, a French sexologist.
At the beginning of the 20th century, Freud also proposed the concept of “psychological bisexuality,” which means that “every gender will show some characteristics of the other gender”.
He believes that each of us has “some of the characteristics of men and women that make up the most ambiguous concepts in the field of science.”
But if you hear psychologists say so, it’s not necessary to start worrying about your sexuality.
Because sexologist Philip Bruno has another point: “if a heterosexual person has some sexual fantasies about the same sex, it doesn’t mean that they will put it into practice.
The balance of personality is achieved in the illusion and repression of other things that have not yet been experienced.
The popular explanation is that the mature process of a person’s personality is mostly accomplished in conflicts and conflicts, but many internal struggles do not mean that you will actually do it.
Therefore, the idea is not guilty, and people should not be ashamed and responsible for their own thoughts.
In fact, bisexuality is not a myth.
The psychological interpretation is that virtually everyone’s subconscious has a tendency to be bisexual.
Americans Alfred Kinsey of two large-scale survey on sex issues, said he asserts: all of the practices and arrangement are continuity, from heterosexuality to homosexuality, there will be a transition phase, called “bi”.
“Bisexuality comes from a two-way imitation of our parents when we were young,” says Claude estudge, a French sexologist.
At the beginning of the 20th century, Freud also proposed the concept of “psychological bisexuality,” which means that “every gender will show some characteristics of the other gender”.
He believes that each of us has “some of the characteristics of men and women that make up the most ambiguous concepts in the field of science.”
But if you hear psychologists say so, it’s not necessary to start worrying about your sexuality.
Because sexologist Philip Bruno has another point: “if a heterosexual person has some sexual fantasies about the same sex, it doesn’t mean that they will put it into practice.
The balance of personality is achieved in the illusion and repression of other things that have not yet been experienced.
The popular explanation is that the mature process of a person’s personality is mostly accomplished in conflicts and conflicts, but many internal struggles do not mean that you will actually do it.
Therefore, the idea is not guilty, and people should not be ashamed and responsible for their own thoughts.
So first of all, you don’t have to really yourself if you bisexual and anxiety, but to see you on the sister now strange behind “love”, meet the psychological need to what?
There’s nothing to be afraid of. You’re human, you have the right to love men, you have the right to love women, you’re not a monster.
There is no rule that only a majority of the world is right, even a few, and you are normal!
To accept you may both love men, and the fact that in love with a woman at the same time, after acceptance, your inner conflict against energy down, perhaps you the obsession with the elder sister also becomes less intense, by this time again do you judge, you just admire her, and at the same time also very wants to possess her.
People change, life is like a river, so even if it is sexual orientation, you should allow it to actually flow.
One of our country’s leading sex psychologists, once said: “under the all-pervasive heterosexual culture, the better advice for bisexual people is to accept yourself.
We’re not encouraging, we’re talking about a discovery, just like we say the earth revolves around the sun, it’s not that we encourage the earth to revolve around the sun, it’s just a fact.
Bisexuality, homosexuality, heterosexuality are all objective facts, and we allow them to exist.
We say that everyone can be bisexual, and that’s just a fact.
Life needs moral norms to maintain, but such norms should not sacrifice our free will.
If you are bisexual, don’t panic, you can choose your own morality and live freely in your own morality. You could seek your perfect match on bi playground.
There is no rule that only a majority of the world is right, even a few, and you are normal!
To accept you may both love men, and the fact that in love with a woman at the same time, after acceptance, your inner conflict against energy down, perhaps you the obsession with the elder sister also becomes less intense, by this time again do you judge, you just admire her, and at the same time also very wants to possess her.
People change, life is like a river, so even if it is sexual orientation, you should allow it to actually flow.
One of our country’s leading sex psychologists, once said: “under the all-pervasive heterosexual culture, the better advice for bisexual people is to accept yourself.
We’re not encouraging, we’re talking about a discovery, just like we say the earth revolves around the sun, it’s not that we encourage the earth to revolve around the sun, it’s just a fact.
Bisexuality, homosexuality, heterosexuality are all objective facts, and we allow them to exist.
We say that everyone can be bisexual, and that’s just a fact.
Life needs moral norms to maintain, but such norms should not sacrifice our free will.
If you are bisexual, don’t panic, you can choose your own morality and live freely in your own morality. You could seek your perfect match on bi playground.
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