my girlfriend is bisexual

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Suddenly I received a lot of news from my friends, asking about my emotional problems.
It's probably between two people, the closer the relationship, the more you know, the more you discover your partner's problems.

Previous knowledge was limited to eating and watching movies, and every date was carefully embellished, and it was hard to see what the other person was really like.
David and his girlfriend have been together for almost a year, the relationship is stable and the relationship between the two parties is very pleasant.

The other party is not only beautiful and generous, but also very understanding, completely without David's ex-girlfriend's all the time worrying about him cheating, regular and frequent check and flip phone.

Victim's David left some psychological shadow, even for girls are a little bit of fear, until meet the girlfriend, now in the process of communication left him a lot of private space, let him have no pressure.

He was very comfortable and comfortable in a relationship.
But then David found out something was wrong.

Because they were in love, the girl will not stick him very much, in the beginning he thought because girls love high emotional intelligence, know the kind, but then once was surprised to find his girlfriend's favorite person, is her best friend!

Saw her for the first time is to go for a walk hand in hand to go shopping with girlfriends, for boys, each other between girlfriends kiss me my little affectations although is not very understand, but many also won't feel surprised.

And her best friend and his girlfriend to have long hair, appearance looks is a series, and the wear glasses, make whole person looks. Plane, dealings between girlfriends also is very normal, not let him go to disorderly want to.

The date of his girlfriend's birthday was coming, because it was the first time for her to celebrate her birthday, and David was excited and nervous, and she had to give her a gift for her hard work. She hoped to have a surprise for her on her birthday.
But birthday, his girlfriend like quarreled with her girlfriends and moping around all day, how to coax is also a cool attitude, when David took out prepared gifts for a long time and just laugh it off.

But in the evening, her best friend came to see her with a gift, and she suddenly felt happy and pulled her best friend for hours.
His heart has some wrong, at this time and in girlfriends go, David started to please his girlfriend again, and put forward the want sex, girlfriend angry turned down, simply walked away.

Girlfriend and girlfriends scenes emerge in mind, David strongly suspect drove him secretly opened the girlfriend's chat logs, found that she and her girlfriends information is very close, very explicit, many entanglements, but also very intimate photos.

He collapsed on the spot, is livid showdown with his girlfriend, the girlfriend after see nor deny, only movingly says she does not know how to choice, he obviously likes me, and not put girlfriends;
I know it's wrong with my best friend, but I can't break the relationship with my best friend.

In fact, as long as the attitude of David is strong, emotional, and completely and the girlfriend to speak clearly, insist on their own bottom line and principle, let the girlfriend make the decision.

Blindly soft and drag, the last three parties should be hurt.
Of course, if the girl is hard to cut off connections and girlfriends, so David should be determined to give up, after all, if people who love each other even unable to adhere to this principle, later in the process of get along, there will be more conflicts erupted.

When broken constantly, it is because of the undetermined attitude, especially in the relationship!

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